Mariage and Family Counselor Linnea Duvall

Yesterday, Berkeley Hall welcomed Linnea Duvall, Family and Marriage Counselor, as part of our 2014-15 school year Speaker Series. Ms. Duvall spoke with BHS parents about how best to navigate through their child’s “tween” years, and, more important, shared parenting techniques that early create a better relationship with your child as he or she grows to adulthood.
WHAT DO YOU WANT AS A PARENT?
  1. Do you want to raise a teen that becomes a competent, sturdy, fulfilled adult?
  1. Would you like that process to be less stressful and more rewarding?
  1. Would you like to understand how your teen’s brain works?
  1. Would you like to have realistic expectations and set realistic boundaries?
  1. And would you like your relationships –yours with your partner & yours with your teen - to thrive while Navigating Adolescence?
 HERE’S HOW TO GET THAT!
  1. Learn how to set a consistent standard and example for your teen.
  1. Learn to listen to what your teen is saying and NOT saying, and learn how to give your teen a voice.
  1. Yes, they do have a brain! but it is still developing. Learn how to understand and best support that development.
  1. Learn the boundaries they absolutely need, the gradual progression of responsibility, and type of constant encouragement they need to thrive.
  1. Learn how to support, encourage and appreciate your own and each other’s parenting skills and styles.
 
RESULTS WE TARGET
  1. You’ll fall more in love with your teen.
  1. You’ll fall back in love with yourself.
  1. AND you’ll fall back in love, or stay in love with each other.
 
 Adolescence is a Difficult Passage for the WHOLE FAMILY not just the teen.
 
Everything changes.
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Located in Los Angeles, CA, Berkeley Hall School is a private, coeducational school for students in preschool through grade 8. Rigorous academics in a supportive atmosphere and grounded character development allow students to become fearless scholars and conscientious citizens - gain a love of learning, leadership with social responsibility, creativity with moral integrity, and self-esteem with compassion for others and the environment.